Bonding thrives on closeness
In their early years, what children long for most is closeness, security, and loving attention from their parents. They need caregivers who listen, take their feelings seriously, and comfort them when they are angry, crying, or when something doesn’t go right. Bonding grows in everyday life when parents give their child attention and understand their needs. In this way, children feel secure, gain confidence, discover new things, and learn something every day. When children attend kindergarten or another form of childcare, the time they share with their parents matters even more. Even at pickup, children sense whether Mom or Dad is lost in thought or truly present. A loving hug, a smile, and a kiss say more than words: I’m happy to see you. At home, there are always opportunities to do small things together, like setting the table or simply spending a few minutes playing with your child. In such moments, children see that Mom and Dad like to talk, laugh, and have fun with them. This daily togetherness nurtures a trusting relationship that stays with children throughout their lives.






